Thursday, June 29, 2023

The First Thing About You by Chaz Hayden

Lynnie

young adult, contemporary fiction

When 15-year-old Harris moves from California to New Jersey with his family (lacrosse stud brother Ollie, overworked dad who's so important I can't even remember his name, and caregiving mother, Clare), Harris is determined to reinvent himself as more than the kid in the wheelchair. The first order of business is finding a new nurse so that his mother does not have to be his school companion. Miranda, a young nursing student and former student as Harris' school is beautiful, capable and sees Harris as more than his disability. Of course, nothing can be that easy, can it? No, of course not.

I really wanted to like The First Thing About You much more than I did.

First, the good- the author, Chaz Hayden, writes about Harris with the authenticity that only someone who shares these experiences can. Hayden does not sugarcoat the experience of being in a wheelchair or living with physical disabilities in high school, nor does he allow Harris to pity himself. Harris is simply living the life in front of him and it's a pleasure to read that.


My problem with the book was always Harris' aide, Miranda. She's... awful. I know, she was going through her own stuff but I didn't like her from the beginning and that made it very difficult for me to have any empathy for her. It was tough to watch Harris contort himself to try to comfort her or get her attention when he was the one who should have been getting more care.

All that said, I did really adore Harris' family and his other friends. Zander and Nory were wonderful, but so much of the story was devoted to Miranda that she overshadowed the good.



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