Sunday, April 11, 2021

This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel

Amy  


fiction

Penn and Rosie have five sons after trying so hard for a girl. Then their youngest, Claude, really wants to wear dresses to kindergarten.

This heartwarming story made me laugh and smile SO much!  I literally would have categorized the first part of this novel as a comedy. So, so funny with adorable, witty characters. Laurie Frankel wrote about such an emotional and controversial topic with humor and compassion. I loved the people in this book and all of their dilemmas—both commonplace and extraordinary.

I had previously questioned how small children are able/equipped to decide that they are not oriented as their birth gender. This Is How It Always Is has opened my eyes to how this might happen.  Claude’s consistency and insistence about his feelings and interests made me see how his parents would come to the difficult decision to allow him to be himself or, rather, herself. It was heartbreaking to watch the family deal with the initial hurdles only to discover there are more difficult hurdles ahead. But everything felt mostly genuine and believable. I thought the side trip to Thailand was a bit extreme (and went on for a bit too long) but, then again, no one can predict how families will handle extremely stressful situations.

The narrator was magnificent. Gabra Zackman is one of those rare narrators who has a massive voice repertoire—male, female, young, old, and accented.  Additionally, she was even able to present different children’s voices. Amazing!  I do have a complaint about her mispronunciation of two words (each mispronounced twice) which definitely would have lowered any other narrator’s score, but her repertoire and voice acting blew me away so much I’m not going to dock her any points for this criticism. A+! My favorite narration of the year so far!



   


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